Ajw118 wrote: ... when i begin my plant when i'm 2 steps away from the box, should i put it on the ground at 1 step away so that as it hits my arms go up. This way, I'm not jamming it in?
By putting it "on the ground", I'm sure you meant "in the box".
Your arms must go up BEFORE the pole hits. You need to start your plant earlier than 2 steps away, so that your top arm is already "up" before the pole hits.
I'm sure that your follow-up question will be "How many steps away from the box should I begin my plant?". I'm going to leave that one for someone else to answer.

Kirk