PV1328 wrote: ... Coinfidence has been an issue for me with all my sports and I am slowly gaining coinfidence and it is amazing how much better you vault when you have coinfidence!
One thing (the BIGGEST thing) that helped me was to always KNOW before every vault that you would be landing safely in the pit ... so you could jump as hard as you can, swing as hard as you can, and keep swinging back-back-back until you're inverted PAST vertical. If you ever have any self-doubt, lower your grip or use a lighter pole before you jump.
If you're afraid of stalling out and landing in the box, then this fear causes hesitation, and the hesitation causes you to actually stop swinging - at precisely the time when you should be CONTINUING to swing.
Once I KNEW that no matter how hard I swung - even past vertical - I would still make the pit and land safely. As a direct consequence of this, I jumped hard, swung hard, and shot straight up ... and usually over the bar.
In reality, you don't actually shoot "past vertical", but if you're not afraid of doing that, then you end up shooting straight up. The momentum you've generated by rotating the pole to vertical is what carries you horizontally over the bar - you don't intentionally shoot your legs over the bar.
However, you can't even THINK about shooting past vertical (let alone do it this way) if you lack the self-confidence that you'll land safely ... EVERY TIME!
On a different topic, I would just ignore what the coach is saying if what he's saying isn't giving you confidence. The confidence that you need comes from within - it doesn't come from people around you saying what you're doing right or wrong. YOU and ONLY YOU are responsible for your own self-confidence! Once you figure out that it's what YOU do (and ONLY what you do) that makes a difference in your attitude and confidence, you'll learn how to cope with your emotions much better. This is particularly true during meets, but it also applies to each and every practice.
Kirk